Behaviour Support & Parent Coaching for Children & Teens

When daily routines turn into an endless household negotiation.

You have read the parenting books, tried the sticker charts, used a calm voice, set consequences, and established logical consequences. Yet, every single step of your family’s day—from waking up and leaving for school to starting homework and turning off screens—remains a grueling power struggle.

At Koru, we don’t treat your child as defiant or lazy; we identify the executive functioning and regulatory gaps driving the stalls, and build practical scaffolds that bring peace back to your home.

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How It Works

Pick a Convenient Time

1. Choose Your Slot
Click any booking button on our site to open our secure portal. Select a date and time that fits seamlessly into your family’s busy week.

Share Your Family's Story

2. Connect with Warmth
We will call you directly at your chosen time. We will spend 15 unhurried minutes listening to your concerns and understanding your child’s unique needs.

Co-Design Your Path Forward

3. Build a Collaborative Plan

We will hand-match your child to the right specialist and secure your spot. You walk away with absolute clarity and an immediate plan of support.

DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?

What routine struggles actually look like at home and school

What routine struggles actually look like at home and school

Chronic Negotiation & Pushback

Simple requests—like putting on shoes, brushing teeth, or washing hands—routinely turn into multi-step debates, delays, or flat refusals.

Task Avoidance & Homework Battles

Homework, chores, or non-preferred tasks stretch into hours of procrastination, whining, distraction, and intense parental exhaustion.

Transition Rigidity & Stalls

Getting out the door on school mornings, leaving a playground, or stopping screen time becomes a highly stressful, predictable daily standoff.

Bedtime Stall Tactics

Bedtime routines are met with endless “one more thing” requests, water breaks, questions, and physical resistance, leaving parents completely drained.

The "Digging in Their Heels" Rigidness

Slight changes in plans, unexpected shifts in routines, or things not happening “their way” result in immediate refusal and emotional shutdowns.

Sibling Equity Policing

Constant, exhausting monitoring of sibling dynamics, where every micro-interaction is policed for “fairness,” leading to rapid, petty household friction.

Sometimes, the first thing parents notice is simply: 'We are exhausted from arguing over every single step of the day.'

Behaviour is executive communication

A child who routinely stalls or refuses a transition is not trying to control the household—they are communicating a neurological gap. Refusals are almost always caused by difficulties with task-initiation, working memory, processing delays, or transitioning attention away from a high-dopamine activity like gaming. We don’t focus on temporarily suppressing the refusal; we help your child build the missing executive skills needed to execute your boundaries with less friction.

Why sticker charts and consequences often fail

Traditional consequences and reward charts assume your child is fully capable of the behavior but simply lacks the motivation to do it. While rewards can temporarily increase compliance when life is easy, they cannot teach a skill that is not there. If your child struggles with executive tasks, standard discipline only punishes their developmental timeline—so we focus on building cognitive momentum and reducing friction first.

OUR APPROACH

How we build executive capacity and daily routines

Mapping Routine Bottlenecks

We pinpoint the exact cognitive friction points in your family’s daily schedule, whether it is transition resistance, task initiation, or attention fatigue. Knowing exactly where and why the routine stalls allows us to build proactive solutions instead of constantly reacting to daily delays.

Executive Function Scaffolding

We co-design brain-friendly tools like visual checklists, color-coded schedules, and chunked task templates. These external structures support your child’s working memory, helping them start and complete non-preferred tasks with far less parental prompting.

Transition & Attention Shifting

We teach your child practical ways to shift their focus from high-interest activities to everyday demands. By building predictable “warm-down” protocols and cognitive bridges, we dramatically reduce the household friction of turning off screens or leaving the house.

Collaborative Problem-Solving

We help your child actively participate in structuring their own routines, chores, and responsibilities. Giving them a sense of ownership and offering structured, predictable choices reduces passive-aggressive resistance and fosters independent follow-through.

Problem-Solving

We strengthen the ability to pause, identify options, anticipate consequences, and repair after conflict.

Environmental & Boundary Design for Parents

We coach you on how to organize your home environment, clarify expectations, and hold firm boundaries without getting dragged into endless debates. You will learn how to set up predictable family systems that do the heavy lifting of compliance for you.

WHAT PROGRESS CAN LOOK LIKE

Growth you can actually see at home

Is your child’s struggle centered specifically around sudden, intense physical outbursts, rage, or aggression? 

While general behaviour support helps with daily routines and compliance, we also have a dedicated clinical pathway tailored specifically to de-escalating explosive nervous systems.

Meet Our Calgary Child & Teen Specialists

Our team consists of Registered Psychologists who specialize in supporting children and teens through evidence-based, compassionate, and somatic-relational approaches.

Jacqueline Stowkowy

Registered Psychologist

Through her genuine care and compassion for others, Jacqueline fosters a supportive environment that she believes helps her clients to achieve their full potential.    

Dave McPherson

Registered Psychologist

Dave collaborates with clients to develop a support plan that suits each one’s unique needs using a strengths-based and positive approach. I

Calgary Psychologist

Fiona Steedman

Registered Psychologist

Fiona is passionate about fostering school and home environments that promote positive mental health, skill development, and overall well-being. 

Dr. Caroline Buzanko, Children Assessments, Calgary

Dr. Caroline Buzanko

Registered Psychologist

Dr. Caroline focuses on practical, real-life strategies to build confidence, resilience, and connection. As a mom, she understands how hard it is to “do the right thing,” so she makes sure her advice is realistic and doable.

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Kristina

Registered Psychologist

More Info coming soon

Ready to match your child with one of our specialized clinicians?

Our team consists of Registered Psychologists who specialize in supporting children and teens through evidence-based, compassionate, and somatic-relational approaches.

QUESTIONS PARENTS ASK US

Frequently asked questions

No. Children do well when they can. When a child routinely pushes back on boundaries or stalls on chores, it is a signal of executive fatigue or cognitive friction, not a calculated attempt to make you miserable. They need structured environmental scaffolds, not stronger punishments.

Reward charts only increase motivation; they do not build capacity. If the task itself is too overwhelming or requires executive skills your child hasn’t mastered yet, the mental effort eventually overpowers the appeal of the reward, causing the system to collapse. Therapy builds the underlying cognitive skills first.

Screens provide a highly structured, high-dopamine environment. Transitioning off them requires a child’s brain to drop dopamine levels rapidly while utilizing executive effort to shift attention. We teach parents and children transition-coaching methods that use physical cues, sensory warm-downs, and cognitive bridges to lower this transition friction.

Absolutely not. We hold a firm stance: boundaries remain firm and expectations do not disappear. However, we change how we help your child reach them. Suppressing behavior through fear or shame does not build long-term self-monitoring; we build the actual cognitive skills required for them to meet your expectations independently.

Yes, absolutely. Sibling interactions are one of the most frequent triggers for explosive meltdowns. We work directly on building sibling boundaries, co-designed conflict-resolution skills, and help parents respond to conflict in ways that cool the escalation rather than adding fuel to the household fire.

This is incredibly common. Different environments tend to have different expectations and structure. Some children will spend an enormous amount of mental energy meeting executive demands during the school day and, when they return home, their battery is empty and any built-up stress, fatigue, and sensory overload is released.  

Absolutely not. We do not withdraw boundaries or ignore harmful behaviour. A regulation-first model is highly strategic: it means we enforce boundaries firmly, but we sequence our interventions based on how the brain learns. We soothe the body first so we can successfully hold the boundary, reflect on what happened, and practice a better response next time.

Parent involvement is the single greatest predictor of success. Because children only spend one hour a week in our clinic, the relational environment at home is what builds long-term change. We partner with you to give you practical, low-pressure co-regulation strategies and boundaries that prevent daily escalation.

This is very common, especially for teens or kids who feel ashamed of their outbursts. Our child-specialist psychologists are highly trained in building strong relationships where children do not feel put on the spot. If your child is completely unready, we can also begin with parent-only consultation sessions to help shift the dynamics at home.

Psychological services are privately billed. However, the vast majority of extended health plans cover services delivered by Registered Psychologists. While individual plan maximums, coverage limits, and eligibility vary, our administrative team is happy to help you navigate your plan and provide receipts or direct billing where available.

YOU DON’T HAVE TO CARRY THIS ALONE

Your child does not need another lecture about behaviour they already regret.

They need practical help accessing a different response before their regulation completely disappears. Tell us what your family is experiencing, and we will help you find the next right step.