Behaviour Support & Parent Coaching for Children & Teens
When daily routines turn into an endless household negotiation.
You have read the parenting books, tried the sticker charts, used a calm voice, set consequences, and established logical consequences. Yet, every single step of your family’s day—from waking up and leaving for school to starting homework and turning off screens—remains a grueling power struggle.
At Koru, we don’t treat your child as defiant or lazy; we identify the executive functioning and regulatory gaps driving the stalls, and build practical scaffolds that bring peace back to your home.
How It Works
Pick a Convenient Time
1. Choose Your Slot
Share Your Family's Story
2. Connect with Warmth
Co-Design Your Path Forward
3. Build a Collaborative Plan
We will hand-match your child to the right specialist and secure your spot. You walk away with absolute clarity and an immediate plan of support.
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
What routine struggles actually look like at home and school
What routine struggles actually look like at home and school
Chronic Negotiation & Pushback
Task Avoidance & Homework Battles
Transition Rigidity & Stalls
Bedtime Stall Tactics
The "Digging in Their Heels" Rigidness
Sibling Equity Policing
Sometimes, the first thing parents notice is simply: 'We are exhausted from arguing over every single step of the day.'
Behaviour is executive communication
Why sticker charts and consequences often fail
OUR APPROACH
How we build executive capacity and daily routines
Mapping Routine Bottlenecks
Executive Function Scaffolding
Transition & Attention Shifting
Collaborative Problem-Solving
Problem-Solving
Environmental & Boundary Design for Parents
WHAT PROGRESS CAN LOOK LIKE
Growth you can actually see at home
- Moving from screen time to routines with fewer warnings and less visual friction.
- Starting homework tasks with less avoidance, procrastination, and parental hovering.
- Accepting a routine limit or a "no" without launching a multi-hour debate.
- Following multi-step morning and bedtime guidelines with less parental scaffolding.
- Transitioning through schedule or plan changes with growing flexibility and ease.
- Parents feeling confident, unhurried, and unified in holding firm, healthy boundaries.
Is your child’s struggle centered specifically around sudden, intense physical outbursts, rage, or aggression?
While general behaviour support helps with daily routines and compliance, we also have a dedicated clinical pathway tailored specifically to de-escalating explosive nervous systems.
Meet Our Calgary Child & Teen Specialists
Our team consists of Registered Psychologists who specialize in supporting children and teens through evidence-based, compassionate, and somatic-relational approaches.
Jacqueline Stowkowy
Registered Psychologist
Through her genuine care and compassion for others, Jacqueline fosters a supportive environment that she believes helps her clients to achieve their full potential.
Dave McPherson
Registered Psychologist
Dave collaborates with clients to develop a support plan that suits each one’s unique needs using a strengths-based and positive approach. I
Fiona Steedman
Registered Psychologist
Fiona is passionate about fostering school and home environments that promote positive mental health, skill development, and overall well-being.
Dr. Caroline Buzanko
Registered Psychologist
Dr. Caroline focuses on practical, real-life strategies to build confidence, resilience, and connection. As a mom, she understands how hard it is to “do the right thing,” so she makes sure her advice is realistic and doable.
Kristina
Registered Psychologist
More Info coming soon
Ready to match your child with one of our specialized clinicians?
Our team consists of Registered Psychologists who specialize in supporting children and teens through evidence-based, compassionate, and somatic-relational approaches.
QUESTIONS PARENTS ASK US
Frequently asked questions
No. Children do well when they can. When a child routinely pushes back on boundaries or stalls on chores, it is a signal of executive fatigue or cognitive friction, not a calculated attempt to make you miserable. They need structured environmental scaffolds, not stronger punishments.
Reward charts only increase motivation; they do not build capacity. If the task itself is too overwhelming or requires executive skills your child hasn’t mastered yet, the mental effort eventually overpowers the appeal of the reward, causing the system to collapse. Therapy builds the underlying cognitive skills first.
Screens provide a highly structured, high-dopamine environment. Transitioning off them requires a child’s brain to drop dopamine levels rapidly while utilizing executive effort to shift attention. We teach parents and children transition-coaching methods that use physical cues, sensory warm-downs, and cognitive bridges to lower this transition friction.
Absolutely not. We hold a firm stance: boundaries remain firm and expectations do not disappear. However, we change how we help your child reach them. Suppressing behavior through fear or shame does not build long-term self-monitoring; we build the actual cognitive skills required for them to meet your expectations independently.
Yes, absolutely. Sibling interactions are one of the most frequent triggers for explosive meltdowns. We work directly on building sibling boundaries, co-designed conflict-resolution skills, and help parents respond to conflict in ways that cool the escalation rather than adding fuel to the household fire.
This is incredibly common. Different environments tend to have different expectations and structure. Some children will spend an enormous amount of mental energy meeting executive demands during the school day and, when they return home, their battery is empty and any built-up stress, fatigue, and sensory overload is released.
Absolutely not. We do not withdraw boundaries or ignore harmful behaviour. A regulation-first model is highly strategic: it means we enforce boundaries firmly, but we sequence our interventions based on how the brain learns. We soothe the body first so we can successfully hold the boundary, reflect on what happened, and practice a better response next time.
Parent involvement is the single greatest predictor of success. Because children only spend one hour a week in our clinic, the relational environment at home is what builds long-term change. We partner with you to give you practical, low-pressure co-regulation strategies and boundaries that prevent daily escalation.
This is very common, especially for teens or kids who feel ashamed of their outbursts. Our child-specialist psychologists are highly trained in building strong relationships where children do not feel put on the spot. If your child is completely unready, we can also begin with parent-only consultation sessions to help shift the dynamics at home.
Psychological services are privately billed. However, the vast majority of extended health plans cover services delivered by Registered Psychologists. While individual plan maximums, coverage limits, and eligibility vary, our administrative team is happy to help you navigate your plan and provide receipts or direct billing where available.
YOU DON’T HAVE TO CARRY THIS ALONE
Your child does not need another lecture about behaviour they already regret.
They need practical help accessing a different response before their regulation completely disappears. Tell us what your family is experiencing, and we will help you find the next right step.