ADHD Therapy for Children & Teens

CHILD, ADOLESCENT & FAMILY PSYCHOLOGY · CALGARY

Your child knows what to do. Why is doing it so hard?

You have explained the routine a hundred times, yet the backpack still sits empty by the door. At Koru, we understand that ADHD isn’t a knowing problem—it is a doing problem, representing the painful gap between what your child knows and what they can consistently put into action.

We help reduce the friction between intention and follow-through by building practical, brain-friendly executive-functioning scaffolds.

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How It Works

Pick a Convenient Time

1. Choose Your Slot
Click any booking button on our site to open our secure portal. Select a date and time that fits seamlessly into your family’s busy week.

Share Your Family's Story

2. Connect with Warmth
We will call you directly at your chosen time. We will spend 15 unhurried minutes listening to your concerns and understanding your child’s unique needs.

Co-Design Your Path Forward

3. Build a Collaborative Plan

We will hand-match your child to the right specialist and secure your spot. You walk away with absolute clarity and an immediate plan of support.

DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?

What ADHD looks like in everyday life

ADHD rarely shows up as “not paying attention.” More often it’s the daily gap between what your child means to do and what actually gets done.

You’ve explained the routine, again, and an hour later, nothing has happened.

They can lose themselves in something fascinating for three hours, then can’t stay with something routine for three minutes. They promise to remember. They forget. They feel terrible — and tomorrow looks the same.

“You could do so well if you’d just apply yourself.”

Starting is the hardest part

The assignment they mean to begin. The backpack that never gets the homework in it. An hour passes and nothing’s started — not for lack of trying.

It slips their mind

They forget what they were asked, lose water bottles and assignments, and need reminders for routines they’ve done a hundred times.

Fast reactions

Interrupting, acting before thinking, or big frustration over small problems. Stopping a favourite activity can feel almost impossible.

Time doesn’t add up

Everything takes longer than they guessed. Big projects wait until the last minute. Some days go great; others fall apart.

Too many steps at once

Following several instructions, or juggling competing tasks, quickly becomes overwhelming — even with strong ideas underneath.

The cost

After enough of this, kids start to believe they’re “lazy,” “messy,” “forgetful,” or “too much.” That belief creates a harmful shame cycle.

None of this means your child isn’t trying.

It means everyday tasks ask for exactly the skills ADHD makes harder to reach on demand — and that performing well one day and struggling the next is part of how ADHD works, not proof of choice.
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AN IMPORTANT REFRAME

ADHD is not a motivation diagnosis

Kids with ADHD can be deeply motivated. What changes is whether their brain can mobilize the attention and executive functions a particular task needs — and that depends heavily on the task.

Interest helps. Novelty helps. Urgency, immediate feedback, and outside structure all help. That’s exactly why a child can concentrate intensely on an engaging project and still can’t begin an ordinary worksheet.

The real question isn’t “Can they focus?” It’s “Can they regulate attention, effort, and action when the task itself isn’t doing that work for them?”

OUR APPROACH

How ADHD therapy helps

Therapy is tailored to your child’s developmental level and executive-function profile. Depending on what’s getting in the way, it may include:

Task initiation

We figure out why getting started is hard and cut the unnecessary friction between intention and the first step.

Organization & planning

Kids and teens build systems for managing materials, assignments, deadlines, and multi-step tasks.

Working-memory supports

Rather than expecting your child to “just remember,” we build external systems that lower the memory load.

Time awareness

We make time visible and help young people anticipate more accurately how long things really take.

Emotional regulation

Regulation work widens the gap between feeling and acting, so quick frustration and impulsive reactions have room to settle.

Self-monitoring

Children get better at noticing what they’re doing, comparing it with what they intended, and adjusting.

Parent coaching

You learn how to provide healthy environmental structure to help — without becoming your child’s permanent, exhausting executive-function system.

SUPPORT ISN’T THE SAME AS DEPENDENCE

We don’t remove support. We grow it well.

Executive functions develop over years. A child who needs support is still developing. Our aim is developmentally appropriate scaffolding that steadily hands more back to your child as they’re ready.

In practice, that might mean:

A good strategy makes the right thing easier to do — it shouldn’t just become one more thing your child has to remember.

Your child may already be working harder than it looks.

WHAT PROGRESS REALLY LOOKS LIKE

Growth you can actually see

Over time, your child may…

Confidence comes from your child learning how their brain works and finding that the right supports make them capable.

Meet Our Calgary Child & Teen ADHD Specialists

Our team consists of Registered Psychologists who specialize in supporting children and teens through evidence-based, compassionate, and somatic-relational approaches.

Jacqueline Stowkowy

Registered Psychologist

Through her genuine care and compassion for others, Jacqueline fosters a supportive environment that she believes helps her clients to achieve their full potential.    

Dave McPherson

Registered Psychologist

Dave collaborates with clients to develop a support plan that suits each one’s unique needs using a strengths-based and positive approach. I

Calgary Psychologist

Fiona Steedman

Registered Psychologist

Fiona is passionate about fostering school and home environments that promote positive mental health, skill development, and overall well-being. 

Dr. Caroline Buzanko, Children Assessments, Calgary

Dr. Caroline Buzanko

Registered Psychologist

Dr. Caroline focuses on practical, real-life strategies to build confidence, resilience, and connection. As a mom, she understands how hard it is to “do the right thing,” so she makes sure her advice is realistic and doable.

Nick Yasinchuk

Nick Yasinchuk

Registered Provisional Psychologist

More info soon!

Kaycie Hartley

Registered Provisional Psychologist

Kaycie is dedicated to supporting children and their families by providing guidance and practical strategies to help build confidence and resiliency together.

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Kristina

Registered Psychologist

More Info coming soon

Ready to match your child with one of our specialized clinicians?

Our team consists of Registered Psychologists who specialize in supporting children and teens through evidence-based, compassionate, and somatic-relational approaches.

QUESTIONS PARENTS ASK US

Frequently asked questions

Medication can be an important option for many children, but it isn’t the only form of support. Psychological and behavioural intervention, parent strategies, school supports, and executive-function scaffolding all play meaningful roles — often alongside each other.

Yes. ADHD doesn’t mean an inability to pay attention. Attention can vary dramatically with interest, novelty, reward, urgency, and stimulation — so intense focus on a favourite game and real difficulty starting a worksheet can absolutely coexist.

Some children benefit from the greater external structure at school, or spend significant effort holding it together during the day and release that built-up effort once they’re somewhere safe — home. The pattern is worth understanding rather than reading as your child choosing where to behave.

Yes, where organization is a real area of difficulty. We also check that the system actually fits your child’s executive-functioning profile, rather than teaching increasingly elaborate methods they can’t keep up.

For younger children, parent involvement is often substantial. With teens, therapy tends to work more directly with the young person while parents keep supporting environmental changes and routines.

ADHD can contribute to impulsive responding, quick frustration, and difficulty regulating emotion for some children. We also consider other possible contributors rather than attributing every emotional difficulty to ADHD.

Yes. We look at what actually makes homework hard — initiation, attention, working memory, learning differences, fatigue, anxiety, unclear expectations, or family interaction patterns — and intervene accordingly, rather than just adding more pressure.

ADHD and anxiety often occur together. Treatment needs to account for both, because a strategy that helps one can miss — or even aggravate — the other.

When it’s clinically appropriate and you’ve given consent, school consultation can be very useful. Availability and any fees for additional consultation can be discussed with your clinician.

Many extended health plans provide some coverage for psychological services, though coverage and eligible providers vary. It’s best to confirm directly with your insurer, and our team can walk you through fees and receipts.

LET’S WORK WITH YOUR CHILD’S BRAIN

The goal isn’t more reminders, more pressure, or more shame.

Your child may already be working harder than it looks. Let’s build an environment and a set of skills that work with their brain — not against it. Tell us what you’re seeing at home and at school, and we’ll help you figure out the next right step.